Inside My Coffee & Pearls Bridal Shower
On Friday night, my friends and family gathered to celebrate my upcoming wedding in form of a “Coffee & Pearls” bridal shower. Just like our wedding, the shower was intimate and filled with personal details of our relationship and upcoming nuptials.
Our wedding will be a “Gatsby Garden” theme, so naturally an abundance of pearls were a given (and it just so happens to be my birthstone). We also are moving to Seattle in four short days, so coffee is also a necessity. Fuze the two of those things and the shower theme just seemed so obvious to us.
But unlike many bloggers, I don’t feel like – as a new college graduate – it is realistic or appropriate to spend the country average on a wedding (which is up to $29,000+ now)! This shower was filled with a lot of gold, pearls and DIYs. Many of these ideas you could easily do with a bit of time, a craft store and a bit of inspiration.
The shower was held in the backyard of my childhood home in Minnesota, which is so special to me. We transformed the yard to be a destination and furnished it with upscale touches like a chandelier hanging from a tree and our newly reupholstered vintage couch (which I am in love with).
My fiance actually had the idea to string pearls above the table to create an enchanting ambiance, what a lovely idea! I bought pearls in excess (from a cheap bulk website) and got 16, 12-yeard packs for a mere $50. It’s a great and affordable way to decorate a party or wedding.
A customized sign thanks to Mod Party, in a gold (spray painted) frame led the guests to the destination and set the tone for the equally girly and glamorous shower.We created a glam coffee bar with all of the caffeinated essentials. We spread out everything behind a rose gold sequin backdrop from Arcadia Wedding Design. Glass and gold containers housed everything needed for the perfect brew like french-pressed coffee, heel-shaped sugar cubes (from the adorable Sugar Shoppe LA), chocolate and caramel covered spoons, mints, creamers and flavor shots.
We spray painted basic (and quite frankly, kind of ugly) coffee mugs gold (with the lid on, that part is key) for a glam touch. We got custom designed coffee sleeves (from the adorable Jen T Designs) to add a personal touch. Everyone loved it. It was super easy too, just print on card stock paper, hot glue them together (using a cup for sizing) and fold them so they are presented like Starbucks. Our engagement pictures (from the beyond talented Everlasting Love Photography) were showcased all around the party. I can’t wait to frame them all for our new apartment. Little chalk tags were used all around the coffee bar to identify different flavors of ingredients. We found them at Michaels for .49 cents each! I made dipped spoons in three different flavors: white chocolate peppermint, salted caramel and double dark chocolate. They were also super easy to make. We got four different flavor shots (just like you would get at your favorite cafe). We simply strung pearls around them to dress them up bit. I know you can buy them at Target, but we found these at T.J. Maxx for $3.99 each. The heel-shaped sugar cubes from Sugar Shoppe LA fuzed my love of fashion and coffee.
We dressed up basic tables with two plastic tablecloths from the Dollar Store, layered with a lace overlay that my mom already had and a pink table runner we found last minute on Craigslist. The same rules for an outfit apply for dressing a table, try to incorporate color, texture, pattern and shine.
We picked up light pink roses from Trader Joes and got glass cups from Ikea for 69 cents each. I also had two beautiful mugs from Lucy Sui that were gold and white, so I placed them on the table as well. We willed them with bulk coffee beans we bought at Costco for $10 and heavenly vanilla candles from Ikea. The combination of the scents were intoxicatingly beautiful. Since it was a later shower, the end of it was mainly candlelit. I placed pretty striped straws (found at Michaels for $1 a pack) in a old flower vase with single pearls collecting at the bottom. We DIY-ed glitter heart stir sticks and placed them in a mass of gold beads. The displays were just as functional as they were pretty. We placed the dessert bar in a separate area so it could have it’s own space. We hung up a white backdrop with a Mod Party tassel garland that was gold, pink and white tassel that leant itself to a party vibe. I opted to string it on, you guessed it, pearls (rather than the twine it came with).I decorated an otherwise bare dessert table with a vintage frame that we have for our apartment and strung pearls inside of it and clipped pictures of us clothesline style. My cousin spoiled me by making completely vegan biscotti (not pictured) and coffee-flavored cupcakes. She transformed my go-to Starbucks orders (a cinnamon dolce latte with soy and a mocha with a shot of coconut) into dessert form. She adorned the mocha flavored ones with chocolate handles and topped the cinnamon dolce flavor with “I Do” cupcake toppers from Magnolia Olive. We dressed up basic folding chairs with oversized bows that we made from chocolate ribbon. Because my logic is that everything is better with a bow on it.I know it’s tradition from the bride to wear white at her bridal shower, but I’m far from a traditional person. I wanted something that I felt pretty in, made a statement and had a dose of cafe flair. This red crochet number had all of the above (and is only $51).I picked up on the beige underlay of the dress with my favorite nude sandals (which are only $32). I never let the grass get between me and my heels by using Solemate’s high heelers. It prevents you from sinking into the grass when wearing heels (they save me during wedding season).Hanging a chandelier from a tree adds an unexpected aspect of glam. It makes the whole environment seem whimsical and pretty.
<< Pink & Gold Tassel Garland and Pink & Gold Bridal Shower Sign c/o Mod Party // High Heel Shaped Sugar Cubes c/o Sugar Shoppe LA // Custom Coffee Sleeves c/o Jen T by Design // Sequin Photo Backdrop (in #24 Rose Gold) c/o Arcadia Wedding Design // ‘I Do’ Cupcake Toppers c/o Magnolia Olive >>
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